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Overfunctioning at Home? Here’s One Way to Stop

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overfunctioning at home

Ever wonder if you’re doing too much for your kids?

Personality-wise, this is my reality. I am a helper, an empath to a point that it arcs others’ eyebrows. read more

Walking with Kids through Church Hurt

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church hurt

This is one of those posts where I’m not an expert, just a mom. (Um, most of my posts?!)

But maybe these small ideas will help. And if I’m smart, I’ll keep this short, right? read more

Your Kids’ Morning Routine: 4 Easy Ways to Add Some Jesus

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morning routine

So I don’t know what your kids’ morning routine is like at your house.

Maybe you picture me lovingly folding lunchbox notes and sandwiches built from the sprouts on my windowsill, sitting down to a full breakfast with devotional book in hand. read more

Parenthood: There Will Be Scars

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scars

Months ago, I stumbled upon what I thought was an epiphany: silicone scar strips…which promised, with 4.5 stars on Amazon, to fade stretch marks, people.

My heart lifted. My first child ballooned my belly like a watermelon, complete with stripes. When another mother asked to glimpse my stretch marks after I mentioned their severity, she gasped aloud with some equivalent of Good golly.  read more

Motivate a Child: 5 Ideas to Help Them Get ‘Er Done

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. motivate a child

I imagine there’s some parent out there like me right now. Spring weather finally crooks a finger, beckoning our kids outside…but as the end of the school year looms, there’s unfinished schoolwork (or just today’s chores) you’re not actually sure your child will accomplish. Like, ever. Tasks are colliding like an interstate pileup. How do you motivate a child without losing your ever-loving mind?

Well, I left my magic wand in my other computer. But in short, you’re searching for your unique child’s motivation DNA. As you consider how to motivate your child, here are a few thought’s I’m typing for my own sake. read more

31 Conversation Starters for Teens, to Talk About What’s Real

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conversation starters for teens

Last week, I rubbed shoulders with an old friend:

Guilt. read more

71 Ideas for Bored Teens & Tweens

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bored teen

They’re socially-distanced, hormonal, maybe driving someone crazy. Grab 71 ideas for the quarantined, bored teens in your life.

Bored teens? Start here.

  1. Make lip balm, lip scrub, or bubble bath with stuff you have around the house.
  2. Start a devotional or journal. (My daughter and I are trying The Courageous Creative. Sometimes we double it with face masks.)
  3. Pedicure thyself.
  4. Play the Name Game.
  5. Play the Newlywed Game for families (grab it here).
  6. Camp in your yard.

  7. Help out a parent.
  8. Play Charades or Pictionary.
  9. Go on a bike ride.
  10. Clean out the thing that used to look like your closet.
  11. Create your own memes or social media graphics on Canva.com.
  12. Create a “Quarantunes” playlist to share with other bored teens.

  13. Read to one of your sibs using a book you loved as a kid.
  14. Try out computer games the ‘rents might not mind you playing, like Simple Planes or Simple Physics.
  15. Plan a video scavenger hunt with friends: On a group video chat, a parent/moderator gives a list of items around the house to gather one at a time.
  16. Have a strategy game marathon. My kids like the usuals: Risk, Diplomacy, Dominion, Axis & Allies.
  17. Purchase a pogo stick for big kids/adults.

  18. If your child is a writer, have them sign up for NaNoWriMo.
  19. Make dinner. Crush it.
  20. Order supplies for henna tattoos, and make easy designs on each other.
  21. Read a chapter book together.
  22. Design artwork for your room; maybe start with a canvas.
  23. Read up on tips to great photography.  Challenge yourself to post one of your photos on social media every day.bored teen
  24. Solve a digital escape room.

  25. Find a great audiobook. If you want, make the number of books absorbed a competition with someone else.
  26. Memorize Scripture for a reward.
  27. Download (um, and use) a free workout app, like Down Dog’s HIIT, Barre, or 7-minute workout apps–all free until May 1, 2020.
  28. Take an online course for something you’ve always wanted to do: martial arts, guitar, drawing, architecture, cake decorating.
  29. Practice the instrument you wish you were good at but aren’t yet.
  30. Do at least one positive, productive thing toward social justice: Write a senator. Find out how to be more green. Create a meme. Research what organization doing great stuff in your area you could volunteer for after all this is over.
  31. Hang tissue flowers or origami at different lengths of thread from your ceiling.
  32. Go on a hike.
  33. Make a Tik-tok video.
  34. Make this 5-minute ice cream. Add your best mix-ins.
  35. Walk the dog of a neighbor.
  36. Paint terra-cotta flower pots to plant something you like–a salsa garden?

  37. Design elaborate chalk art on your sidewalk. Or learn to make your own chalkboard mural like a pro.
  38. Paint your room.
  39. Make rock candy.

  40. Pull out colored pencils for an adult coloring book.
  41. Reach out to someone you know is isolated or freaking out.
  42. Create a collage on your bulletin board.
  43. Hello–weekend movie marathon. Lord of the Rings, Back to the Future, The Bourne trilogy, Star Wars. You got this.
  44. Write down your bucket list.
  45. Finish a jigsaw puzzle.
  46. Start a one-line-a-day journal, like this one that lasts 5 years. 
  47. Make slime.
  48. Ask your parent to begin teaching you something–like woodworking.
  49. Make a good movie. Or make a bad one, and laugh at it.bored teen
  50. Perform a totally covert act of kindness.

  51. Create the best recipe for pizza or nachos.
  52. Decorate your own T-shirt with glitter or upcycle it with some easy alterations.
  53. Make a bag out of an old T-shirt.
  54. Find a watercolor tutorial on Pinterest.
  55. Learn how to make no-knead bread in like, 10 minutes. Shock your family.
  56. Go fishing.
  57. Make a time capsule.
  58. Make a photo book (Flickr, Chatbooks, etc.).
  59. Challenge a sibling or parent to a paper airplane competition.
  60. Start a podcast. (Research how to do it well.)

  61. Create a killer smoothie recipe.
  62. Learn to grill. Create your own rub (spice) recipe.
  63. Make popsicles. (My daughter likes berry cheescake ones.)
  64. Make a copycat frappucino.
  65. Go on a run.
  66. Pray for someone.
  67. Create your own bath bombs.
  68. Pick a free workout video on Fitness Blender.
  69. Learn hand lettering.

  70. Surprise someone in a good way.
  71. Make your own kite. Fly it.

I want your ideas, too. Share ’em below!

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Much Afraid: How Fear Turns a Good Parent into a Slave [INFOGRAPHIC]

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fear parent slaveParenting has this way of exposing a part of who you are in ways both beautiful and terrifying.

As in, Wow! Who knew I had this gift for creative teaching? Or, Who knew I could handle this amount of laundry and still emerge with enough panties to fight the day?

But also, as author Elizabeth Stone has written, Making the decision to have a child is momentous. It is to decide forever to have your heart go walking around outside your body. read more

On Raising Teenagers, and Other Frightening Impossibilities

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So I have a teenager, and another just about. Most of me is tickled pink about all the real conversations we get to hold, all the fun we have as a maturing family, all the crazy jokes they tell me that leave all of us laughing.

And there’s this leeettle part of it that scares the bejeebies out of me.

Seemingly separate note: I have recently acquired an agent for a non-fiction book I’m writing, which makes my heart do little cartwheels of happiness. It was a moment I wasn’t sure would ever happen. read more

Raising Kids Who Love God…After They Leave Your House

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Ever feel like you need a “cultural translator” just to get through to your kids?

Yeah. Me, too. read more

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