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I’m married. Can I have a best friend of the opposite sex?

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best friend of the opposite sex

Author’s note: One of my perennially best-traveled posts remains Christian, Married, and Attracted Elsewhere. It’s not unusual to be attracted to or feel connection with someone else.

But as followers of Jesus–how do we handle it? Is it kosher to be married and have a best friend of the opposite sex who’s not your spouse? read more

“Is it okay for me to hope in something other than God?”

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Her road has been long.

A friend of mine has a husband whose cancer treatments were at last beginning to show signs of promise. read more

A Symphony around My Chopsticks: Thoughts on Everyday Faithfulness

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symphony alongside my chopsticks everyday faithfulness

My house is (blissfully) quiet now. I sit at my clean wooden table. My stomach is comfortably satisfied. My kids are actually adjusting remarkably well to school life—something I couldn’t have anticipated after five years homeschooling them in Africa. (Adjusting so well, in fact, that after their dental appointments last week, the younger two begged me to return to the last hour of school. Um…okay!) My new job as a freelance writer—after a few weeks of what might be called panic—is actually a delight. And my husband is happy, which is just a good gift all around. We are all healing mpola mpola (slowly by slowly).

This is to say: I have a lot I am thankful for. Many of you have asked about our transition, probably because my heart has seeped out a bit into cyberspace. I would not be telling the truth to say something other than—wow. This has all gone much more smoothly than I thought possible. (Thank you, friends, for praying. He hears.) read more

Off-season: When You’re Not Where You Wanted to Be, When You Wanted to Be There–Part II

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Off-season: When You're Not Where You Wanted to Be, When You Wanted to Be There

Missed the first post? Grab it here.

In three weeks, my family and I will quietly glide across the line sectioning our lives into before and after. And it will be as innocuous as stepping onto an air-conditioned airplane. read more

I wish I could FaceTime God

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facetime god

This slightly edited post of mine is gratefully reprinted with permission from another site for which I write, www.everthinehome.com.

I wish I could FaceTime God.

Over here in twenty-first-century Africa, as long as my power is existent and my internet is not having a grumpy day, I am still able to “phone home.”

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